when and where

we find ourselves, at times, in a state of dilema. it's there, everything, but is it the right time for me? I think it just depends on how i play the cards and how i manage the situations. If i do what i usually do, i'll be screwed. but, if through be totally consciencious of the situation and how it works, it could be an amazing opportunity to experience a new kind of that something...does that make sense?